By: Camara Wallace, PhD Student, Urban Education
Hello Gradjags!
My name is Camara, and I’m excited to be one of your new emissaries. This month, I have the honor of writing the blog!
As the semester winds down and the days get shorter, it’s essential to take care of our mental health. For me, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) tends to sneak up, especially when I’m so focused on schoolwork that I forget to check in with myself.
To combat this, I make it a point to take breaks and explore Indianapolis. Stepping away from your work might feel impossible but trust me—you deserve a breather. Schedule an hour for yourself and try out one (or all!) of these ideas:
Stress Busters Week: Cozy Up and Create with UPnGO and GPSG
This blog is for graduate students, and why look further than at home on our campus? UPnGO is hosting Stress Busters on December 10th from 4PM-6PM in University Library 1126. Not only will UPnGo have refreshments and activities, but this is a great social event to check in with your fellow peers. This time of year, can feel lonely and isolating, especially since everyone is working hard to finish out the semester. Take a moment and come to Stress Busters, where you can speak with other Gradjags.
Located in Carmel, IN, the market runs from Wednesday-Sunday. The hours vary, so check out the website (and schedule of free events) here! Parking is free, with several garages conveniently located next to the market. The market includes an ice-skating rink if you like to be more active during the winter. I personally enjoy listening to the live music and walking through the treat wagon. I highly recommend following up any activity with an inexpensive cup of hot chocolate from Bob’s Belgian Hot Chocolate. And, if you need any holiday gifts that are budget friendly, I like to purchase beautiful lace crafts from Vogel German Lace for under $10 (many times under $5 as well).
What’s more relaxing than allowing your inner child to emerge and roam the halls of the Indianapolis Children’s Museum? During the summer I had the honor of seeing the museum’s rendition of The Jungle Book, which was a completely unique experience. This winter the production is The Magic Snowman, an interactive musical about a man who creates a magic snowman. As somebody who was obsessed with dinosaurs growing up, I also highly recommend the
There are two dates to keep in mind for the Children’s Museum: Thursday, December 5th, and Thursday, January 2nd. Between the hours of 4PM and 8PM, admission is only $6. While four hours may not be a lot of time to explore the museum (I made this mistake the first time I went), the price point makes it worth it. If you are available during the first Thursday of every month, definitely take advantage of this deal.
Holiday Lights
Of course, one of the most challenging parts about this time of year is stepping outside when it’s cold. I always think Holiday Lights are worth the effort. Step into a winter wonderland and look at the creativity that exists in the community. As a prelude to going, I highly recommend having dinner at a ramen spot such as Wei Ramen or Kyuramen. Both are delicious, inexpensive, and will help you brace for the cold.
There are several ways to view Christmas Lights in Indianapolis. The prices vary, but I tried to list the opportunities from least expensive to most expensive:
- Circle of Lights (free around Monument Circle until January 11th)
- Holiday Lights at the Zoo (ticket prices vary until January 5th)
- Winterlights ($25 per member until January 5th; students receive free membership to Newfields)
- Christmas Nights of Lights ($35 per carload until December 31st)
Also, did you know that as a student, you can get a free yearlong membership at Newfields? Students (yes, that includes us Gradjags) get a free yearlong membership at Newfields. You have to go in person with your Crimson Card to receive the membership, but I highly encourage doing so. With the membership, you can go to any Newfield event at member pricing.
This year, the Indiana Historical Society (IHS) is hosting the Festival of Trees. This festival features 85 trees that represent people, families, and companies around Indiana. This year, the IHS is including Twilight Nights on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 5PM-8PM. You can relax after a long day at work and view the trees in their full, lit glory. Tickets are around $18-$20 and IHS has a free parking lot off of New York Street.
Paint Some Pottery
This is a little bit of a splurge, but worth it. The beauty of Indianapolis’ art community is that there are several studios where you can paint pottery and take it home. The pottery is varied–last time I painted a dragon on a castle. You can also paint bowls, plates, and other tableware. If you want to use it, just make sure the studio knows so they can provide the right paint. Each piece has individual prices, so the cost can vary between $15 and $40. The best part about both of these studios is that they are walk-in–no appointment needed!
Take a moment to have a warm pot of tea and feel fancy during this cold season at Rustic Root. This beautifully decorated tearoom offers several tea party options. You can go alone or with friends. Their High Teatime is available at any time during the day, with a price point between $13 and $22. For one person, I encourage having Petite Tea with White Chocolate Coconut Chai and a Sweet and Spicy Turkey Sandwich. Trust me on this–both are delicious and will warm you up in no time. To feel even more fancier, you can ask for sugar cubes and peruse the store area for teas, candles, and goats milk lotion products.
Of course, if you do not have time or energy to go to Rustic Root, I encourage getting tea from Tea’s Me Cafe. This Black-owned tea cafe was created by Tamika Catchings, who prioritizes drinking tea and drinking tea the most enjoyable way possible. Let the folks at Tea’s Me Cafe show you how to drink a cup of tea and make it delicious for you.
Sip and Paint at Home
I understand that sometimes you do not have the energy to leave your house. Some days my couch is my best friend, especially during the winter. This does not mean you cannot do anything eventful. Rather than do a formal Sip and Paint, which can cost a significant amount of money, do it at home. Michaels constantly had deals on their paint-by-number kits (which are excellent quality with no paint mixing involved). You can find their kits online for around $10. Bring one of these kits home, make yourself some hot tea or a hot chocolate, set a timer for thirty minutes, and paint until the timer goes off.
I also found that this makes a great, inexpensive activity to do with friends. To make it a party, you can always make this a “dip dinner” night. Have everyone bring a dip, provide chips, and eat your way through the dips. No need to make complicated food while also having a satisfying meal and enjoying your time with friends.
Too much pressure to complete your work? Absolutely no time to spare to relax and find an activity to help you unwind? Then come to the Writer’s Block Party on December 12th from 4PM-8PM in University Library 2125. This is a low-pressure evening that offers free pizza, time to work on your final assignments, and peers to help keep you accountable. Remember, from one writer to another: while your work may be individualized, writing in a community offers the opportunity for encouragement, feedback, and creativity.
Please continue to check-in with yourself during this season. With less sun and less energy, it is easy for stress to feel more and more intense. To conclude this, I would like to recommend two campus resources that can help guide you through the end of the semester.
Counseling & Psychological Services (CAPS)
CAPS is found on the second floor of Lockefield Village and offers your first 6 individual counseling sessions for free. Subsequent sessions are affordable at $10 per session. This is also a great opportunity to participate in group therapy, where you can see, listen, and engage with people who feel the same stress you are. Accessing CAPs is pretty easy. You can:
- Call 317-274-2548
- Email capsindy@iu.edu
- Or simply walk in!
There is some student parking by Lockefield, but the Jagline can take you directly to CAPs as well.
Timely Care is a free virtual resource. If you need to speak with somebody after business hours, Timely Care has a Talk Now option with 24/7 on-demand emotional support. You can also schedule appointments, receive health coaching (including nutrition advice, time management, and mindfulness practices), and find self-care content. After signing up, I would recommend viewing “3 Strategies for Stressful Situations” under the self-care tab. These strategies include great self-talk and grounding techniques.
Take care of yourself this winter-you’ve got this!