It’s February, the month of love. Aside from Love Data Week and Random Acts of Kindness Day, February also hosts the most famous love-themed holiday of them all. While Valentine’s Day is the most popular day to buy roses and chocolate, it’s probably best known for its mascot, Cupid of the love-tipped arrows. But just who is he, anyway?
Cupid is the Roman name for Eros, the Greek god of love. As disorderly and intense as love can feel, Eros is sometimes credited with creating light and kickstarting the process of order on Earth. Other myths depict him as the son of Aphrodite, the goddess of love, and Ares, the god of war. In Hesiod’s Theogony he is portrayed as a personification of desire, one of the earliest beings created in Greek mythology. Cupid is rarely a main character, but often features in myths where love (or lust) is a component.
The Tale of Cupid and Psyche, TED Animation
The most famous myth of Eros is a Roman story by Apuleius dated to the 2nd century CE. The tale of Cupid and Psyche, found in the book The Golden Ass, depicts a princess who, according to an oracle, will be married off to a horrid, fearsome being for offending Venus. However, upon seeing Psyche for the first time, Cupid accidentally scratches himself with his own arrow and moves her to a beautiful palace where she is waited on hand and foot. She is permitted to stay as long as she never tries to look at her devoted lover, who visits her every night. Her jealous sisters scheme to ruin her good fortune by convincing her she is actually married to a monster, and the only way to find out is by looking at him. One night, Psyche lights an oil lamp to look at her husband while he is sleeping, only to discover she is married to Cupid. In her excitement a drop of oil falls on him. Venus banishes her from the palace while taking in the injured Cupid. After four trials assigned by Venus, Psyche is deemed fit to be the wife of a god, is granted immortality and is married in grand fashion to Cupid.

Cupid’s appearance has changed over the millennia. Originally he was depicted in Greek art as a young man with wings; the arrows were an early component of his image as well. However, as early as the first century CE, Roman artists began to emphasize Cupid’s youth, portraying him as a child. By the 15th century he was usually depicted as a baby with wings, similar to Italian putti and cherubs. In 18th century Paris, there was renewed interest in the Latin phrase “omnia vincit amor”, which meant “love conquers all.” Cupid appeared in art and literature alongside this slogan, and by this point Cupid’s impetuousness was a common feature.
“Cupid”, written and performed by Sam Cooke (1961)
Today, Cupid is depicted in music and film. Consider the Sam Cooke classic “Cupid,” which hit #17 in 1961. It has been covered numerous times by the likes of The Spinners, Johnny Nash and Amy Winehouse, making is a multigenerational single. In it, Cooke pleads to the god of love to make his beloved fall for him. He places all of his faith in the god of love to solve his romantic woes, and the song’s message has proven timeless. Cupid has also inspired two television series of the same name, and he is still featured prominently on images describing true love.
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